Creative Advice
Not sure if this is “good” advice or not, but I’ve certainly found it to be true.
The other night I was flipping through channels and, as I buzzed past either Sundance or IFC, I saw one of the two oldest Marsalis brothers doling out some advice that was given to him by an older Jazz musician. I came in after the interview had started, so I don’t know if it was Wynton or Branford, nor do I know who gave him the advice, but it was significant enough to make me think.
He said, basically, don’t have anything to fall back on.
When someone starts on a path of professional creativity, whether it be musical or otherwise, we’re told that we need to do something else, too, so that we “have something to fall back on”. But, here’s the thing. If you have something to fall back on, then you do, and never truly give everything to that creative endeavor. I know that’s been true for me. I used to write all the time, but, then I got involved in my career and started spending more and more time on that. It’s not a bad thing, as I do fairly well, but the IT stuff is what I do, not the writing. I never really succeeded at writing because, well, I never had to succeed at writing. I had something to fall back on.
So, whatever it is that you want to do, do that. It’s the only way.
Advice from your Uncle Jim:
"Whether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not, there isn't anyone who does not appreciate kindness and compassion."
--Dalai Lama
This post’s timing was perfect for me. I’ve been grappling with a major life decision and kept putting it off. I’ve learned in the past that no one around me likes change. But this would be something just for me. I’ve been raised to believe your actions affect those around you so I kind of lived that way. Yesterday my horoscope was basically giving me the push (Yes I know horoscopes, lamo but so me, lol). I’m wondering how many more signs I need, lol. I think today I’ll step off of that curb and cross the street for the first time as a big girl!
I hope you take time for your writing…don’t let go of the dream 🙂
Comment by Jenn — 3/25/2008 @ 8:05 am